Is “just have sex with him” really bad dating advice for women (from men)?

11 Responses to Is “just have sex with him” really bad dating advice for women (from men)?

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   La Pantera February 13, 2012 at 2:59 pm #

   depends what you want. if you’re just lookin for a bit of fun, screw him. if you want a serious rship, hold off. Personally I think until 35 they’re only good for a good, hot screw
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   scorpios February 13, 2012 at 2:43 pm #

   “just have sex with him” is BRILLIANT dating advice for women. I don’t know what kind of drugs you’re on.
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   Ben February 13, 2012 at 2:05 pm #

   I have to agree with what Rico said. In my experience women don’t generally take into consideration the thoughts and feelings of men in relationships. It’s all about what women want and what women feel.
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   Queen Bee February 13, 2012 at 1:40 pm #

   Are you Dumb Tracey? Sorry, I only answer Smart Tracey.
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   ♥Missy♥ February 13, 2012 at 12:45 pm #

   that is bad dating advice
   because its not solving anthything
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   Kelly S February 13, 2012 at 11:45 am #

   This question made me laugh because I was once given this advice from a guy friend. I told him I was having some problems with the guy I was dating at the time and I felt that we would probably break up. I asked his advice and he told me that I could break up with the guy but continue having sex with him until I found someone I liked better. He then told me that he did just that with a girl he had dated. Then he looked a little confused when he told me she vandalized his truck when he started dating someone else- and ending the whole relationship. He just couldn’t understand why she was angry because he told her up front that they were broke up!
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   Mike February 13, 2012 at 11:19 am #

   I think it just emphasizes the differences between how men & women think. Men generally want sex as soon as possible. So when a guy says “just have sex with him”, its not that hes giving you bad advice purposely, hes just telling you what he honestly thinks is the best or what he would do. In practice, I would say its pretty bad advice and wouldn’t suggest women to follow it (assuming they’re looking for long term relationships).
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   anthony h February 13, 2012 at 11:14 am #

   If they fall for that they are robots. Youre right it is bad advice, it cheapens women unless women like you inform them of their worth. Kudos!!
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   Jenna February 13, 2012 at 10:16 am #

   I laughed at it because it was funny. The thumbs up were either from women that found it amusing or from guys that agreed with it. The asker of this question here is not a woman. Only a guy would consider this straightfoward and honest dating advice. No woman in her right mind past the age of 16 would agree with this.

   Lol, Queen Bee, kind of transparent, isn’t it?

   If you are a lady, you certainly have some masculine tendencies. LOL, too funny
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    J.R. February 13, 2012 at 9:26 am #

    Yes, it is really bad dating advice. Sex does not help you get to know someone. It is a physical act that can lead you to THINK you have emotional feelings for someone. The best kind of relationships are friendships. Then the sex is much better. Sex should be postponed until marriage anyway. If a guy doesn’t want to be with you because you won’t have sex with him, then you shouldn’t want to be with him. I know it sounds lame, but a guy needs to want to be with you for you, not for how good you can perform. I got married because the sex was good. It just clouded my emotions. That was all we had and now are divorced.

    The other thing to think about is that there are ALWAYS accidents, no matter how careful you are. Are you ready to have a baby out of wedlock? That is always a question you should ask yourself before you have sex.
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    Rico Trump February 13, 2012 at 9:07 am #

    I don’t know if its about making things complicated OR just wanting to be in control.

    I feel women always want to be the boss in relationships. They want to decide how fast it goes, when to have sex, when to get serious, etc. They don’t want to compromise or give into anything the man wants unless it suites their agenda.

    Having sex with the man right away gives him all the power. Once he has had sex with the woman.. that woman risks losing the ability to use sex as a reward for sticking around.

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