Talk to your man – don’t just let this simmer. Ask him of he loves you. Tell him that need to hear it said everyday – tell him that you know he loves you but that for you, you need to hear it siad outloud.

You might want to look into the book “The Five Love Languages” by Gary Chapman. This book changed my marriage. No it saved my marriage. My wife is outwardly emotional, she needs to hear me say I love you, she needs me to cuddle up with her and watch a movie, she needs me show passion. I would prefer to sit and quietly read a book or watch TV and never picked up on that. I know she loves me because she takes care of my children, my house, she supports me in everything I do (except my smoking lol). This how my love language works – I need to have a caring supportive partner. I don’t know – read the book; it was one of those things she asked me to do when we were almost ready to walk away from 10 years of marriage – she found this book though a freind and read it. She then handed it to me and said if you love me want continue this marriage you will read this book – she had simmered too long – I did read it, four times in the last year. My marriage is a lot like the first year (only we have to be careful of where and when because now we children lol)